{"id":3054,"date":"2011-04-29T07:26:16","date_gmt":"2011-04-28T21:26:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/?p=3054"},"modified":"2018-12-11T18:09:28","modified_gmt":"2018-12-11T08:09:28","slug":"partner-is-not-a-dirty-word","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/2011\/04\/29\/partner-is-not-a-dirty-word\/","title":{"rendered":"Partner is not a dirty word"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I periodically see indignant tweets and comments by people that if you sell something to a client, then you&#8217;re at worst being unethical, or at best being idiotic to say that you like to consider customer relations as partnerships.<\/p>\n<p>This has reached the point where I&#8217;ll no longer sit back and listen to cynics who think that as soon as you start selling you either cease being human, or cease being unable to think symbiotically.<\/p>\n<p>Insisting that companies cannot, and should not, refer to clients as partners, is at worst toxic and at best, demeaning to all parties.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I&#8217;m not going to say that there <em>are<\/em> instances where some companies jump on the bandwagon and like to insinuate a partnership but stick to a traditional &#8220;stick whatever badge you need on that widget to sell it&#8221; sales approach. Of course that is going to happen.<\/p>\n<p>But to tar all companies that sell, or integrators with that brush? Pah! Think again.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve worked in some form of consulting pretty much all my career. I started as a trainee consultant, and when that programme was dying I transferred across to a Unix system administration team. Even as an &#8220;end customer&#8221; I still had my own customers, and as the company I was working for started taking on outsourcing contracts, I started being a consultant again. That was followed by a brief stint in the less than compatible world of finance, and since then I&#8217;ve remained in consulting.<\/p>\n<p>Consult! Consult! Consult!<\/p>\n<p>Consulting, systems integration, however you want to think about it, does not <em>work<\/em> well when customers are treated as meat \u2013 as paying clients to service the next bill. That leads to a succession of one-off engagements and implementations. Rape a company of budget, move on to the next and pillage that, too. It&#8217;s not a sustainable model. Or rather, unless you&#8217;re a global company and trade on some pre-established name, that model doesn&#8217;t get you very far. Pretty soon you get a crap name in the market and you start driving yourself out of business. You&#8217;ll blame the technology you&#8217;re using, and switch to another product, or another vendor, exhaust a new set of customers, and move on again.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s only one sustainable model in consulting and systems integration, and that&#8217;s the model where you engage with clients in a partnership. I&#8217;m not talking about looking for joint ventures; I&#8217;m talking about basic recognition of fundamental business cooperation, viz:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I want to help you succeed at what you do;<\/li>\n<li>If you succeed at what you do, you&#8217;ll be able to help me succeed by buying things from me.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Symbiotic? Or parasitic? A cynic would say parasitic, and they&#8217;d be wrong. Or they&#8217;d come from the &#8220;everything should be free except for what I do&#8221; school of business. You know \u2013 the people who think that the only company entitled to put markup on a widget, or make a profit, is themselves.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s actually a symbiotic relationship, because it recognises that a relationship can actually be of <em>mutual<\/em> benefit to both parties. It doesn&#8217;t have to be about one &#8220;winning&#8221; and one &#8220;losing&#8221;, or &#8220;one making money&#8221; and &#8220;one spending money&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>The absolute basis of my belief in this is covered in my &#8220;<a title=\"13 traits of a great consultant\" href=\"http:\/\/unsane.info\/wordpress\/?p=756\" target=\"_blank\">13 traits of a great consultant<\/a>&#8221; post. In particular, point 11 sums up exactly why a customer\/client relationships should become a partnership:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Solve the problem, don&#8217;t answer the question<\/strong> \u2013 From an IT perspective, I use this example: an engineer, if asked a question by a customer, will do his or her utmost to answer the question as exactingly as possible. A consultant will look past the direct question and aim to solve the problem that led the customer to ask the question. Or in other words: if it doesn&#8217;t have a yes\/no answer, no question is asked in isolation.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>If you just have a customer\/client relationship, then all you get is an <em>engineering<\/em> relationship. &#8220;Yes we can sell you widget X? What, you thought widget X did Y? But you didn&#8217;t ask? Thankyou for shopping, no refunds!&#8221; Do you really want that sort of relationship? Going down that path, you get a plethora of situations where <a title=\"Technology is rarely the problem\" href=\"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/2011\/04\/12\/technology-is-rarely-the-issue\/\" target=\"_blank\">technology is blamed for non-technical issues<\/a> \u2013 and indeed, it happens at both the client and the sales side.<\/p>\n<p>Form a symbiotic partnership though, and the relationship is far more wholesome and useful. From the sales side of it, satisfied customers whom you consistently deliver expected results to are <em>repeat<\/em> customers; repeat customers form the basis of predictable sales and earnings, and as time goes on provide valuable feedback to your growth as a company, too. From the client side, you get solutions that are tailored to your needs by people who you know and trust \u2013 and you know and trust them because they&#8217;re very much aware of your business requirements, constraints and operational models. A <em>partner<\/em> in fact will be able to help you through the rougher times \u2013 regardless of whether that&#8217;s unexpected staff changes without handover, or simply when needing a leaner approach that sacrifices scope only, rather than quality and scope. A partner will have the experience of working within your organisation and be able to deliver faster, more efficiently, and with less impact to your operational processes.<\/p>\n<p>So, the next time someone suggests to you that you can&#8217;t have a partnership in a sales\/client model, or that consultants\/system integrators can&#8217;t form symbiotic relationships with your business, consider this one question:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Do you want a supplier you can trust, or a box dropper?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Rarely, if ever, will the answer be the latter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I periodically see indignant tweets and comments by people that if you sell something to a client, then you&#8217;re at&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[12,13],"tags":[220,248,265,724,958,973,974],"class_list":["post-3054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-technology","category-general-thoughts","tag-client","tag-consultant","tag-customer","tag-partner","tag-supplier","tag-system-integrator","tag-systems-integrator"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pKpIN-Ng","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3054","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3054"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3054\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7513,"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3054\/revisions\/7513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nsrd.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}